My post earlier this week seems to have touched a distinct nerve among readers, American and non. One point of clarification to those who pointed to Ronald Reagan's national funeral/festival as proof that yeah, we do too mourn, bucko. Well, yes. As Chervokas points out in a terrific blast, we mourn our celebrities with depths of grief unimaginable in lower species. This is exactly correct:
A pilgrimage of strangers to a public space in order to deposit wreaths, flowers, notes, candles, and personal effects on a curbside has become a new ritual in American life. It happens every time a celebrity slips away from cancer or pilots his Cessna into a death spiral. Man-on-the-street interviews with public mourners form the basis of obligatory obit sidebars. TV stand-ups shot in front of makeshift mourning displays are mainstays of cable news.
What my inelegant prose meant to convey was this: specifically, we don't mourn the deaths of those our very actions and policy and votes send into the crushing jaws of war. Memorial Day? Shopping. Veteran's Day (Armistice Day)? Shopping. An occasional parade. In our town, they still roll out the limo for the Gold Star Mothers, who wave with white-gloved fingers at my kids with their flags abreeze on the sidewalk.
Many of the comments on this post intuitively looked back for proof of what we needn't spend time and energy on in the present. Did we mourn the deaths of WWII or Vietnam (only much later)? What President ever publicly mourned mass death in combat? Well, Republicans, there is one shining example - a tall fella out of Illinois made it a habit for the last three years of his Presidency, and his life. You may recall one chapter in his long line of public ceremonies of mourning (well-covered in the newspapers of the day), a little bell-ringer called the Gettysburg Address. Strange that a Republican President worried about public opinion - and running against a Democratic war hero - would risk it all by dedicating every major military cemetery personally.
Still, it was a good point. No matter that FDR wore the conspicuous black mourning band on his suit from Pearl Harbor till his stroke in Warm Springs for the soldiers he ordered to die for their country. We don't collectively mourn our soldiers' deaths until well after the fact. Frankly, LBJ hiding away in the White House as the death toll climbed to an eventual 50,000 in Southeast Asia is pretty much the model for how we - as a nation, led by our President - handle the return of our dead. Heck, Tom K. has a decent point when he observes:
Yout confidence in the goverment's ability to affect the behavior of the average person when it comes to intimate things like mourning is unjustified, in my view. If most Americans don't mourn, it's because most Americans don't care in the sense of caring that would trigger mourning. The government could try to whip up concern, but could neither supress it nor make it happen contrary to the popular will.
That's libertarian sadness for ya. Different from the rampant red-eyed socialists of Europa. As one anonymous poster noted (correctly, in my view):
We don't mourn because it's a collective activity, and that doesn't fit in with the individualist ethic that is America. You are allowed to pay your respects to individuals that have died, if you want to, but it's not required - it's your choice.
Yes, it is our choice, and both libertarians and liberals are correct when they say this can't all be laid at the feet of the President and his chicken hawks. We share the blame (if blame is to be bestowed in this matter). Maybe we don't want to know, we don't want anything to break the at-the-mall insouciance of America's vast middle. On the other hand, there is a public relations effort at the White House, and within the Republican Party. This is a strategy. And the blogging Texan Jim Childers is correct when he notes a distinct activism in minimizing the cost to the general public:
I fully agree with Tom that the leadership does not care about the deaths of the troops or innocent civilians, and in fact they take active steps to decrease the visibility of wartime horrors. Anything that lessens American bloodlust is to be actively eschewed, and the administration certainly has its allies to help it in that wicked task. But this has been true since World War II, when the "military industrial complex" that Eisenhower so presciently warned us about came into ascendancy. But the American people, after years of conditioning, are culpable in their own right. The causes of this silence are debatable, the silence itself is not.
So what type of person would make hiding the caskets, minimizing the dead an actual national PR strategy? Answer: the kind of political leader to whom the intellect of the ideal follower appears something about the level of this:
You guys are so transparent. I wish I could see out of my windows as clearly I as I can see through you. The death of this Italian is tragic to say the least, but you are not looking for a national day of mourning for American soldiers lost in combat. You want to take an unfortunate international incident and frame so America looks bad. I know it, you know it and most Americans know it, which is why Bush is president for another 4 years. Please keep it up.
And this one:
What a load of horse manure. The Italians are making a big deal out of this tragic death as a means of making a political statement. The journalist is an avowed communist previously outspoken in her total contempt for the US action in Iraq; in addition, she had written favorably of the Saddam Hussein regime in the years prior to the start of hostilities. With each passing hour, her story about the incident becomes less believable. The government's actions relative to the death of our soldiers in Iraq is fundamentally indistinguishable from practices in virtually all previous wars in which the US has been involved. The very obvious point of your silly rant is NOT to express concern over our soldiers, but rather to make of the Italian story another bludgeon against the government's Iraqi action.
Yes, I'm all about making America look bad. But thanks for the kind words, and we have some lovely parting gifts for you. What a fool - but emblematic of the millions of fools who believe that anyone questioning the costs of this war and the motives of our leadership is somehow un-American. They're too stupid, too conditioned to see the irony: that questioning power, questioning leaders, questioning everything is the most American trait imaginable. And throughout history, beyond politics, it's why we fight.
These people aren't wearing armbands....well, not the black armbands of mourning anyway.
UPDATE: One reader sent a link about the funeral in Texas of Specialist James Kiehl, killed in combat operations early in the war. More than a 1,000 people lined the route of his funeral cortege. Very moving, indeed. Man I hope the former Governor of that state is paying attention. And as this war drags on, we can't forget the ongoing sacrifice - strange how no one talks about how high the number is getting. Further, here's a Website by someone who actually does seem to care about national mourning and recognition of our dead - please visit.
UPDATE II: Lots of folks who posted in this series mentioned President Reagan's funeral as an instance of national mourning, and deservedly so. But Reagan (with whom I disagreed on most policies) was also a master at leading during moments of national mourning, of creating a movement among the people to remember the sacrifice of others. Sure, you can say it was staged, the masterwork of a trained actor - but it was effective and it did (for many) unite. For a President who cites Reagan as his true emotional and political father to ignore his true example is a gut-level indictment - it shows George W. Bush and his chicken hawks don't care. I found this image, among hundreds, in the Department of Defense online photography database - a President publicly mourning the dead in the spirit of Lincoln. Can you imagine Bush doing this? I cannot.